Thursday

Passing Time


Every day passes quicker than the one before. It's a troubling fact that we hear about from the time we are wee ones, with our parents running about, perplexed that yet another day, week, or month has passed them by. How could this happen when we have yet to do all the things we intended to? Write more, reconnect with friends, purge of old belongings, be better people....

Well, I find this "loss of time" conundrum is becoming increasingly more prevalent and difficult to fight in the 21st century. Every time we turn around there is a new gadget, application, or social media outlet we must engage. Sometimes I try to avoid them, but then I think- in this day and age, being young and immersed in the professional world, there is not a chance of survival if I don't understand and master each one of these gadgets and tools. Thus, we are lost in a sea of electronics and innovation, and time passes us by, faster than it ever passed by the now older generations.

What's the point? Well, if you are complacent in your life and don't mind waking up and wondering where the time went, I guess there isn't a point. But for those of us who wake up with our foot twitching, those who have the tendency to push the gas pedal all the way down, and spend time planning all the places we need to go- we need more. While being relevant through media is the most "it" thing since the Apple and Facebook revolutions, we must also fight for clarity and reality. We exist not only through the fingertips we use to punch the letters to write the words that become our history on the Internet, but also though the feet and the bottoms firmly planted in the chair we perch in as we do so. The chair which sits on the floor of the house, built upon the dirt and the earth, amongst the trees and oceans, underneath the sun and the stars.

Take a moment and reconnect with something aside from your keyboard. Take that moment every day. Live outside media, exist in the space around you. Life passes us by, we may as well try to catch it while we still have the chance.


Wednesday

Sprezzatura

Sprezzatura: An art that seems artless; a rehearsed spontaneity.

It is really the effortful pursuit of the appearance of effortlessness, a dedication to the end result.


How many things in life would we like to seem effortless? Whether it's a well thought out ensemble, walking in sky-high heels, juggling work, homework, relationships, our health, our happiness - we all hope to appear in control. Lack of control can feel like, or be viewed as, weakness. But why is that? Why be afraid to show a little vulnerability? Are we in denial of our own imperfections or do we think others assume we have none, or maybe they just didn't notice yet? Often it is those very flaws, or moments of clear conflict when distress is furrowed in your brow, that we find out who each other really are.
While practiced actions and habits can bring about certain perceptions of grace and elegance for your reputation and granted one would do well to aim to be elegant, remember that all of us have moments where we lack sophistication. The key is to be able to laugh at ourselves in these fleeting moments, when our ankle buckles during our supermodel strut or we lose track of one of the many things in our busy schedule, because this is where true happiness lies, and you just can't fake that.

A Wardrobe Staple

What better than a timeless leather jacket- and a Michael Kors one, no less!

Fall 2012 Fashion Shows

Talk about redefining the little black dress! Texture, texture, texture.
Alberta Ferretti RTW Fall 2012

Stay up to date! Which of course in fashion means stay a few seasons ahead.

What better tool to stay on top of things than WWD.com (women's wear daily, of course). Thanks to them we can still work a full time job and maintain our every day responsibilities while getting updates and a brief synopsis on the best of the best at Fashion Week. From Ralph Lauren, Elizabeth and James, Burberry, and Alberta Ferretti, amongst many others- fall fashion is being redefined once again.
Manolo Blahnik collaborating with J. Crew! Great news! Talk about reviving one of the most classic show icons of this fashion era in a preppy, beautiful way.